Dear Luis, 

How do I get my officemate to notice me? He's usually just focused on work or hanging out with other officemates. We say hi, hello, but what can I do to make him see me as more than just an officemate?—Joy, 26

Dear Joy,

Sending nice, flirtatious smiles won't hurt. Start simple conversations with him; try to make eye contact across the room. If you do those right, you'll definitely get the "more than an officemate" vibe going. Try this: Whenever you see him, ask him a question or two then work your way from there. Girls have this God-given talent of flirting with your eyes! Use that! :)